Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.It is usual that for most men ejaculates fast when they masterbate.It is due to various reasons like anxiety or negative thought.Ejaculation during sleeping is normal process in youngsters.Some get more often, some less.If you are getting premature ejaculation in normal sexual activity you can try squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach an Urologist or sex therapist or psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.