Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. I understand that you are quite distressed by your sexual problem. Premature ejaculation is a very common problem among young men. Very often the cause is due to excessive anxiety and fear regarding sexual performance (what is called performance anxiety ). You also seem to be having wories and misconceptions about your masturbatory habits. So, I would advise you to see a psychiatrist in your place for a detailed evaluation and further treatment. Treatment will involve sexual counselling and in some cases, medication can also be helpful. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar Consultant Psychiatrist