Hi Jotish, I can understand the concern and distress that you are facing due to your problem. You seem to be suffering from premature ejaculation. The good news is that your condition is highly amenable to treatment. I would suggest you consult a psychiatrist. There can be two types of treatment- with medicines and with behaviour therapy. Both can be used simultaneously as well. Medicines include paroxetine taken on a regular basis or dapoxetine on as needed basis. Behaviour therapy will include learning relaxation exercises, sex education and methods like squeeze and distraction which will help in prolonging the ejaculation time. For better chances of success, it is recommended that your wife accompanies you for behavior therapy sessions. Hope this information was helpful. Best wishes.