Hi, I read your query and can understand the distress associated with your husband s condition. Your husband seems to be suffering from premature ejaculation which means that a person is ejaculating quite early before either he or his partner attains satisfaction. It can have huge burden on both the husband as well as wife. It would be advisable that you both seek a psychiatric consultation for the same. Premature ejaculation can be treated with both medications as well as behavior therapy. The best response is when both the methods are tried together and when both husband and wife participate together in the behavior therapy sessions. Medications include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors like paroxetine taken daily or dapoxetine taken as needed basis. Behavior therapy measures include learning relaxation exercises, sex education and methods like start-stop, distraction and squeeze technique. Hope this information was helpful. Best wishes.