Hello, Thanks for contacting HCM. Premature ejaculation can be treated or controlled with the help of behavioral methods and the drugs.. The behavioral techniques need to practiced during sex and does not expect the benefit from the first day.. it will take time.. your partner can also help u by participating in the behavioral intervention..these techniques are very difficult to explain here in detail…material is easily available on the internet. You can google the names of techniques, I am about to mention. Techniques are: 1. Squeeze technique 2. Start- stop method 3. Interruption technique You can perform these behavioral methods, they are easy to understand.. Premature ejaculation can also be controlled by drugs.. SSRI antidepressant drugs cause delayed ejaculation as a side effect, and this side effect is used therapeutically in the treatment of premature ejaculation. Thanks and regards