Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.Anxiety and stress are usual culprits for many.So you should get rid off those.Ejaculation while sleeping is an usual thing.It occurs more in people who don t masterbate.If you are getting premature ejaculation in normal sex then you can try following.You can do squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach an Urologist or sex therapist or Psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.