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Hi doctor, I am 36 years old and not yet married. Right now i am facing pre-mature ejaculation problem (ejaculates within few seconds of having sex with opposite partner). In past and till now i had been masturbating a lot but less of intercourse with other partner as i am still single without any gf. I was not married due to family problems but now i am seriously thinking of getting married. But with my current state i am bit confused and frustrated. Please let me know how can i solve my premature ejaculation problem. I would like to take some herbal medicines but dont know where to start from.
Tue, 12 Aug 2014
General & Family Physician, Dr. Nishad BN's Response
Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.Anxiety and stress is also a main cause of premature ejaculation.So you should get rid off those.You can try squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants.SSRI like paroxetine and clomipramine are given with effective results.Short acting SSRI Dapoxetine can be taken whenever need also.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.
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Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.Anxiety and stress is also a main cause of premature ejaculation.So you should get rid off those.You can try squeeze and stop technique.You can stimulate your partner to maximum before getting yourself stimulated.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like anti depressants.SSRI like paroxetine and clomipramine are given with effective results.Short acting SSRI Dapoxetine can be taken whenever need also.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.