Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query.

From the description of your symptoms, it appears that you are suffering from premature ejaculation. This is a very common problem in young males and it is more likely due to a psychological cause such as anxiety. So, firstly, I would suggest that you stop getting anxious or worried about this issue.

To increase the ejaculation time, you can try practicing certain exercises like Kegel's exercises or techniques like the Masters and Johnson technique. Alternatively, there are medication available like Dapoxetine which can help delay ejaculation time.

Wish you all the best.

Regards,
Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar MBBS., DPM., MRCPsych.(U.K.)

Hi
Thank you for asking HCM
I have gone through your query.The loose of erection when around your partner is psychological.Usually it is not associated with any organic cause.It is most likely due to performance anxiety or stress.Your partner can help you in this case by enough fondling and foreplay.In case of premature ejaculation you can try squeeze and stop technique.You can deviate your thought to something nonsexual when you about to near ejaculation.You can put on a condom or condom with anesthetic which will decrease the excessive stimulation on penis and there by prevent premature ejaculation.If all these not helping then you can approach a psychiatrist for behavioral therapy and medicinal management like antidepressants.SSRIs like Paroxetine as well as Clomipramine gives good results in many.Dapoxetine a short acting SSRI which can be used in need also.Hope this may help you.
Let me know if you have any further query.