Hello thanks for asking from HCM I can understand your concern and I would like to tell you that there is no need to panic. The discharge that occurs during foreplay is not semen but precum. It is the lubricating fluid that is secreted by seminal vesicles in stages of excitation and help in smooth intercourse. Now during intercourse you ejaculates within a minute and are not satisfied. It could be due to premature ejaculation. But most of cases improve by psychological methods only. Try to divert your attention from intercourse which will increase the time. You can practice yoga and this will help to relax you during intercourse. Some exercises like Kegel s exercises, Start-stop technique by Master s and Johnson s are very effective in premature ejaculation. Consult a good psychologist or sexologist for details of these methods. Medicines especially Dapoxetine are very effective in premature ejaculation. Consult a psychiatrist for prescription. Herbal medicines like Tantax Royal also have good results. The medicine is safe and don t require prescription. Thanks, hope this helps you