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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation And Thinning Of Semen
I M Rohan and i am in great trouble.....cannot focus on career....explaining below--
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Age - 23 yrs , < Male > , < Hieght - 6feet 2 inches > , StiLL VIRGIN
I Have been masturbating for last 10 years twice or thrice a week. i do this for pleasure....but for last some years i m facing some problem and as my family is very strict and conservative that is why i cannot share my feeling with any family member.....i m so afraid.....that there was a time i did cry alone in corner for hours....but now i hav decided to face the problem as i cannot go to any sex-expert doctor directly because i m afraid and depressed and i need guidance from you.....my problem is----
1.> PREMATURE EJACULATION - as i said i am virgin and i never had sex in my life but in masturbation ,, when very excited i jsut cum in few seconds even less than a minute.
2.> SEMEN IS NOT THICK - earlier (4 years back) when i masturbated my semen was thick but now ....
it is like water....if do daily......but i noticed if i donot do for a week it is slightly thick than water.
3.> ERECT problem - when erect it is hard only for 20 seconds and without hand
support it starts coming down...... is this a SERIOUS disease.
4.> PENIS SIZE - My penis length - 3 INCHES normally And 6.5 inches when ERECT
PENIS circumference is 5 inches when erect.....is my size normal or below normal?
5.> NO stamina.....i starts feelin tired soon.....and feel ashamed.
above is my my problem.....and i m very afraid that i will not do sex with my gf so i never asked her....and ignored when she talks.....i m afraid about following things ------->
1.> are these symptons of impotent.....is thERE any CURE or NOT ?
2.> because semen is not thick at all-- is this means i can never become father.....is sperm count more in thick semen ?
3.> when penis is erect it is hard but not as hard solid as it was some years before ?
4.> Is penis size normal to make a girl happY ?
--------------------> ALL above stated are my reasons of depression but i m good in studies and compeleted my graduation and now i m software engineer and i jus cannot focus on my work and i can't concentrate on studies......
i m in great trouble ......parents are talking about marriage after 3 years.....i m feeling guilty for masturbating.......i want my normal life back.....i m shy and cannot go directly to a doctor......u r my last hope.......
PLease tell me
I have lost all MY hope.....please tell me ,, what is my condition and what should i do now.....my first priority is carreer but i can't concentrate for a minute......i will loose everything......please tell me what to do-------
1.> should i leave masturbation right now......starts exercising.....having good food.....can i become normal after 2 years.....with this routine.....CAN i become father naturally.....i m TOO afraid ?
i belong to a strict family if they will come to know this i have no option than SUICIDE....that is why i can't meet doctor directly.......
right now ur advice and guidance is everything i NEED.....GOD will bless u.....and i will personally thank......please reply as soon as possible........this is question of my life........i will do do 24 * 7 hard work to get healthy life back.....
U CAN SAVE ONE LIFE ,,,,,, 24 *7 I FEEL GUILTY AND WANT TO GO FOR SUICIDE....
PLEAAASSSSEEE HELP ME TO GET MYSELF OUT OF THIS HELL.
,
Age - 23 yrs , < Male > , < Hieght - 6feet 2 inches > , StiLL VIRGIN
I Have been masturbating for last 10 years twice or thrice a week. i do this for pleasure....but for last some years i m facing some problem and as my family is very strict and conservative that is why i cannot share my feeling with any family member.....i m so afraid.....that there was a time i did cry alone in corner for hours....but now i hav decided to face the problem as i cannot go to any sex-expert doctor directly because i m afraid and depressed and i need guidance from you.....my problem is----
1.> PREMATURE EJACULATION - as i said i am virgin and i never had sex in my life but in masturbation ,, when very excited i jsut cum in few seconds even less than a minute.
2.> SEMEN IS NOT THICK - earlier (4 years back) when i masturbated my semen was thick but now ....
it is like water....if do daily......but i noticed if i donot do for a week it is slightly thick than water.
3.> ERECT problem - when erect it is hard only for 20 seconds and without hand
support it starts coming down...... is this a SERIOUS disease.
4.> PENIS SIZE - My penis length - 3 INCHES normally And 6.5 inches when ERECT
PENIS circumference is 5 inches when erect.....is my size normal or below normal?
5.> NO stamina.....i starts feelin tired soon.....and feel ashamed.
above is my my problem.....and i m very afraid that i will not do sex with my gf so i never asked her....and ignored when she talks.....i m afraid about following things ------->
1.> are these symptons of impotent.....is thERE any CURE or NOT ?
2.> because semen is not thick at all-- is this means i can never become father.....is sperm count more in thick semen ?
3.> when penis is erect it is hard but not as hard solid as it was some years before ?
4.> Is penis size normal to make a girl happY ?
--------------------> ALL above stated are my reasons of depression but i m good in studies and compeleted my graduation and now i m software engineer and i jus cannot focus on my work and i can't concentrate on studies......
i m in great trouble ......parents are talking about marriage after 3 years.....i m feeling guilty for masturbating.......i want my normal life back.....i m shy and cannot go directly to a doctor......u r my last hope.......
PLease tell me
I have lost all MY hope.....please tell me ,, what is my condition and what should i do now.....my first priority is carreer but i can't concentrate for a minute......i will loose everything......please tell me what to do-------
1.> should i leave masturbation right now......starts exercising.....having good food.....can i become normal after 2 years.....with this routine.....CAN i become father naturally.....i m TOO afraid ?
i belong to a strict family if they will come to know this i have no option than SUICIDE....that is why i can't meet doctor directly.......
right now ur advice and guidance is everything i NEED.....GOD will bless u.....and i will personally thank......please reply as soon as possible........this is question of my life........i will do do 24 * 7 hard work to get healthy life back.....
U CAN SAVE ONE LIFE ,,,,,, 24 *7 I FEEL GUILTY AND WANT TO GO FOR SUICIDE....
PLEAAASSSSEEE HELP ME TO GET MYSELF OUT OF THIS HELL.
Wed, 27 May 2015
Hello
Thanks for query.
It is a normal desire of a human being to get sexual satisfaction and masturbation is the only safest way of getting it in absence of a female partner.However indulging it leads to addiction and problems related to erection and ejaculation what has happened to you.
I would answer your queried point to point
1)You do not have ejaculation but it early ejaculation due to excessive sexual stimulation by the firm grip of penis by hand.Premature Ejaculation is a defined when one gets ejaculation within one minute of penetration o vagina while having intercourse with female partner .It is not applicable to masturbation.
2)It is due to habitual and frequent masturbation.
3)It is normal to loose erection verry fast if one masturbates frequently.
4)The size of your penis both in flaccid sate and on erection is normal and nothing o be worried about it.
5)Loss of stamina is psychological and due to masturbation .
6)It takes 65 hours to produce semen of normal consistency and thicknees so frequent masturbation over a period of short time will have watery semen.
At the outset you have to have positive frame of mind and please note that to masturbate is not a sin or crime .Everyone does it at the age of adolescence .
Please think positively and concentrate on your carrier .
Counselling by a psychiatrist will help to resolve all your problems.
Though it is harmless, excessive and frequent habitual masturbation does affect quality of erection and ejaculation.Please try to reduce the frequency of masturbation by keeping yourself busy in activities like sports,reading ,social work etc so that you will not get free time to masturbate.
Dr.Patil.
Thanks for query.
It is a normal desire of a human being to get sexual satisfaction and masturbation is the only safest way of getting it in absence of a female partner.However indulging it leads to addiction and problems related to erection and ejaculation what has happened to you.
I would answer your queried point to point
1)You do not have ejaculation but it early ejaculation due to excessive sexual stimulation by the firm grip of penis by hand.Premature Ejaculation is a defined when one gets ejaculation within one minute of penetration o vagina while having intercourse with female partner .It is not applicable to masturbation.
2)It is due to habitual and frequent masturbation.
3)It is normal to loose erection verry fast if one masturbates frequently.
4)The size of your penis both in flaccid sate and on erection is normal and nothing o be worried about it.
5)Loss of stamina is psychological and due to masturbation .
6)It takes 65 hours to produce semen of normal consistency and thicknees so frequent masturbation over a period of short time will have watery semen.
At the outset you have to have positive frame of mind and please note that to masturbate is not a sin or crime .Everyone does it at the age of adolescence .
Please think positively and concentrate on your carrier .
Counselling by a psychiatrist will help to resolve all your problems.
Though it is harmless, excessive and frequent habitual masturbation does affect quality of erection and ejaculation.Please try to reduce the frequency of masturbation by keeping yourself busy in activities like sports,reading ,social work etc so that you will not get free time to masturbate.
Dr.Patil.
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