Hello my elderly mom has complained of different (often valid) health complaints. Mostly recently of lower back pain and over the last year at a geritrician s visit ofweakness, fatigue, lower leg tingling, arthritis. However, I am finding she seems to go for a test. Goes to do this or that and then pulls back and stops or does partial recommendations. Why? This is frustrating and I am afraid that her new doctor will see this as difficult behaviour - yet I have not seen her in so much pain in her face or movements ever (84 yrs old). What do I do -- I am frustrated before we go.