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Me 39yrs old male, Married n blessed with a kid of 4 yrs also. my prob is less interest in sex with my spouse as compare to her. We both r working...i had bad habits in past as Force masturbation since early childhood and then homosexuality...but in starting I had gud sex with my wife but now I don't like to have infect there is no urge...we give some time a gap of 1 month to 2 months...If i do then i don't get hard n after few strokes I cum ...pls advise how to increase my interest in sex with my wife , how to make more hard penis N how to increase sex timing after entering in vagina...thnx
Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query.
I understand that you have been having a low sex drive as well as problems with your erection. Now, this could be due to various causes - medical causes or psychological causes. Medical causes like diabetes, hormonal imbalance, etc. can be responsible for a decrease in sexual drive and functioning. Similarly, psychological causes like stress, anxiety, etc. can also play a role.
I would advise you to first have a detailed evaluation in order to find out what the main cause of your problem is. This will include a detailed history, physical examination and certain tests. Further treatment will be targetted according to the cause detected.
Regarding increasing the time for ejaculation, there are certain sexual techniques like Masters and Johnson technique as well as certain medication which can help you control premature ejaculation.
Wish you all the best.
Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar MBBS., DPM., MRCPsych.(U.K.) Consultant Psychiatrist
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Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. I understand that you have been having a low sex drive as well as problems with your erection. Now, this could be due to various causes - medical causes or psychological causes. Medical causes like diabetes, hormonal imbalance, etc. can be responsible for a decrease in sexual drive and functioning. Similarly, psychological causes like stress, anxiety, etc. can also play a role. I would advise you to first have a detailed evaluation in order to find out what the main cause of your problem is. This will include a detailed history, physical examination and certain tests. Further treatment will be targetted according to the cause detected. Regarding increasing the time for ejaculation, there are certain sexual techniques like Masters and Johnson technique as well as certain medication which can help you control premature ejaculation. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar MBBS., DPM., MRCPsych.(U.K.) Consultant Psychiatrist