Hello there! I recently found out that my boyfriend has been diagnosed with HPV (he gave me the impression that he's known for a while). I know that it's a fairly common condition and many strains clear up on their own (which is why I'm confused as to why he may still have it). I am unsure of what particular strain he has.
We've yet to have sex, but can I get it through kissing or holding hands?
I have had all three doses of the Gardasil vaccine, how long will that last? What exactly does it protect me from?
I've heard condoms are not particularly helpful in preventing the spread of HPV, is this true? Is oral sex utterly out of the question? Can I catch HPV if he preforms oral sex on me? Should I be concerned about digital stimulation/penetration, both him acting on me and vice versa? Is there a way to have safe sex?
He claims to be mostly asymptomatic and I've never seen a wart or the like on him, but can I still catch it?