Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I can understand. Erectile dysfunction could be due to physical as well as psychological reasons. Psychological reasons include anxiety regarding sexual performance, stress and anxiety related thereon, wrong knowledge related etc. You are just married. It is quite natural to have apprehension regarding sexual performance. Over and above you are 34. Late marriage adds to the misteries. I suggest you not to involve in sex for another week. Completely forget about sex at all. After a week, if you try, you will succeed. If not, you may consult an urologist for complete investigation and treatment. For the time being, don t worry, don t be anxious and do not indulge in sex for a week at least. If you still need my assistance in this regard, please use this link. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Please remember to describe the whole problem with full detail. Hope this answers your query. Please feel free to post follow up queries. Available for further clarifications. Good luck. Take care.