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sir i cant concentrate on what i do my mind always is in some other world thats why i cant concentrate if i do a work then i have fear in my mind that is that the work i am doing doesnt go wrong. and when i study then a severe thought come in my mind that you cannot do it and i am unable to do it. And some thing always going on in my mind. I feel a pressure in my heat that will squese my head. I have completed Bachelors degree in Computer science when i searched job then there was recession some friends advice me to join AAASP(Advance Arena Animation Program) it a diploma which include graphic software,2d Software and 3d software and when i completed my course in animation then i am facing problems to get job my parents are telling me that you have done wrong to take admition in that course. Sir now i am really very depressed I am unable to comunicate to my parents because i dont share my problems with them because of ego .Sir sometime i think that i am not made for this world but besides these negative feeling i never thought for death . Every one is saying that i am slow dont analayse the things i am care less i am fool good for nothing . some time i fight with these feelings but the fighting spirit remains for a day and from another day the same things are happening to me . sir when i drive my bike i noticed that during driving my mind diverts and when car comes then i thought that from where this car comes. some time i have to tell my self to concentrate on the current work. About my past i was facing same problems in my child hood .In my studies there are always careless mistakes during writing i make spelling mistakes and some times i write different word instead of another that i thought for example He goes i write it He walks and there is no cordination what is i am writing , thinking and speaking . In my child hood my father most of the times beat me with any thing that he has whether a leather belt, a bamboo stick or with leather slippers. I am not blaming it on my father but he beats me when i do wrong things he thought that with beating i will not make mistakes.My father is elder in all my uncle all the responsibility of arranging or any thing is to be done by him. Sir i dont have any friend to talk my problems because no one has time for any body .Sir i think that i dont want to face anything
Name - Vivek Age-25 Gender-Male Status- Unmarried Country- India
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I can understand your concern. After reading your detailed history I have come to conclusion that the possible reason behind your symptoms could be depression most likely and adjustment disorder less likely. Your poor performance and inability to find job could be due to lack of confidence due to depression and then this aggravates other problems. You are not able to find suitable job even you have suitable degrees, you have poor relationship with your parents and this could also be due to depressive symptoms. I would advise you to consult a psychiatrist for help in such symptoms.
In most individuals medicines like SSRIs help to reduce the symptoms. Commonly used SSRIs are Sertraline, Paroxetine, Fluoxetine etc. Apart from medicines Cognitive therapy can also prove useful in your case. Heightened ego, cognitive distortions will respond to cognitive therapy and you will feel better. Continue to search a suitable job and don't loose hope. Finding a job will reduce a lot of symptoms.
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Hello thanks for choosing HCM for your health related queries I can understand your concern. After reading your detailed history I have come to conclusion that the possible reason behind your symptoms could be depression most likely and adjustment disorder less likely. Your poor performance and inability to find job could be due to lack of confidence due to depression and then this aggravates other problems. You are not able to find suitable job even you have suitable degrees, you have poor relationship with your parents and this could also be due to depressive symptoms. I would advise you to consult a psychiatrist for help in such symptoms. In most individuals medicines like SSRIs help to reduce the symptoms. Commonly used SSRIs are Sertraline, Paroxetine, Fluoxetine etc. Apart from medicines Cognitive therapy can also prove useful in your case. Heightened ego, cognitive distortions will respond to cognitive therapy and you will feel better. Continue to search a suitable job and don t loose hope. Finding a job will reduce a lot of symptoms. Thanks