I am 46 and have already went through the change of life, I have been sick with some kind of flu like virus, includes deep coughing from the chest, I have it about 2+ weeks, but am feeling a lot better, but during this I have had a bladder control problem where I am wearing a pad for bladder leaking, I don t even have to cough hard now for it to leak It comes out easy, for the past 2 days I thought I noticed the pad a light red and today I noticed more then usual and after going to urinate I wiped and there was blood in my urine