Yes my question is about motherhood. I tried to consult to someone at work but I don't think I can connect to anyone and its really making me very depressed. I'm a single mom that works full time army and my life keeps me very busy. I started going to go to school as well. Well my son is 2 and a half years old and he's above and beyond his terrible two stage. He can get to anything if you let him. For instance, he can grab a chair and get on top of the kitchen table, he can undo plugs, get on top of his high chair by himself and he pretty much knows how to unlock and lock doors. (Hell lock himself in the bedroom and open it after a few times of me knocking)being that I'm a single parent I have to try extra hard hard to watch him and be emotional supportive. By now in order to keep my house even safer - I pretty muchc cover any possible outdoor openings and use all three locks to the front door. Recently I've been having problems with my front door locks because it will completely come out of the door and is very easy to open. I contacted my apartment landlord to get it fixed. There is the chain lock which is the highest which would be the hardest to open if my son tried to. Unfortunately I was in the bathroom doing personal hygene and when I came. Out of the bathroom I noticed my son having opened the door and going outside. It was the chain lock that was broken and he was able to open the door. Fortunately I was able to find him outside close to the front. Now I feel like a terrible mom because someone would have called the police if I hadn't went out there.I'm very self cautious when it comes to being a mom and I want nothing more than my child to be safe. I was wondering if - I could get some parental advice if I'm at the risk of being a bad mother,child neglect or if my decision wanting to send my child to his grandparents is a good one.