Dear service user
Thank you for contacting Healthcaremagic.
Hi, I have gone through your question and understand your concerns.
I understand that you do
masturbation for last two years and ejaculate within few seconds. There is no 'specific' time period defined for ejaculatory delay. It greatly varies from person to person.
This happens sometimes for men, when they start sex with a particular partner, the initial arousal level is very high so he reaches orgasm quickly and emission occurs. But, this situation gradually declines over a period of time. Hence, if an individual is reaching orgasm/climax early, he is likely to experience a little delay in subsequent encounters.
When clients with similar problems approach me, I recommend them a behavior exercise called start-stop technique. The man starts masturbation and stops just prior to orgasmic inevitability. He allows arousal level to decline and re-stimulates. One should continue this 'start-stop' sequence for about 15 minutes. Later on he may fantasize about partner during the start-stop hence learns to be in the situation when he actually will confront female partner.
In this method, man learns to identify or feel the point of ejaculatory inevitability (The point of NO RETURN) and gains voluntary control of ejaculation gradually over a period of time.
Hope, I have answered your question. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help. Wish you good health.