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Suggest Remedy For Relationship Issues In Couple Due To Past Affair

hi,am Nidhin,my wife is nw very much mentally depressed due 2 sme issues in a love afair before marraige,she had told me abt all.but she cant forget the past issues,so she cant able 2 overcme the matter.plz sugest me about.nw am working in dubai,and she is in chennai nw.we had a child also.so plz help me to bring ma wife back.plz
Fri, 22 Aug 2014
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Hello, thank you for your query.

Its nice to know that despite of knowing about your wife's issues you want her back. She's very lucky and unfortunately doesnt realise that yet. If even after having a child, she's trapped in past issues then it is very unhealthy for the relationship. You should seek help from someone who's a part of her innermost circle, for example, her best friend/sister/mother whoever who's closest to her and has an influence on her. You've to be open to this person about your feelings and insecurities and they can not only better help you to deal with her but also make her understand your true value to her. How many years have you two been married since? Are you both living separately because of work/other reasons or has she fought with you and therefore not staying with you? These are issues one needs to know about to be able to better assist you.
Dont worry, if you are persistent, she will definitely see what she has been missing. And when that happens, she'll make up for all the efforts you made on the relationship, i.e. if she's still not interested in her ex.
If this does not work, you could seek help of a counselor.

All the best!
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Suggest Remedy For Relationship Issues In Couple Due To Past Affair

Hello, thank you for your query. Its nice to know that despite of knowing about your wife s issues you want her back. She s very lucky and unfortunately doesnt realise that yet. If even after having a child, she s trapped in past issues then it is very unhealthy for the relationship. You should seek help from someone who s a part of her innermost circle, for example, her best friend/sister/mother whoever who s closest to her and has an influence on her. You ve to be open to this person about your feelings and insecurities and they can not only better help you to deal with her but also make her understand your true value to her. How many years have you two been married since? Are you both living separately because of work/other reasons or has she fought with you and therefore not staying with you? These are issues one needs to know about to be able to better assist you. Dont worry, if you are persistent, she will definitely see what she has been missing. And when that happens, she ll make up for all the efforts you made on the relationship, i.e. if she s still not interested in her ex. If this does not work, you could seek help of a counselor. All the best!