hello, Thanks for putting your query on HCM. The condition that your husband is suffering is called premature ejaculation. Now its a type of anxiety disorder and the person normally suffers from performance anxiety where in he is anxious if he can perform or not. One solution is medications. I prescribe 12.5 mg paroxetine at night. Normally one should try until 25mg of Paroxetine. If paroxetine is not effective then Dapoxetine is an option. It has to be given 1 hour before having sex and will prolong the sexual interval. Other option is start stop technique where you should stimulate your husband and the moment he is about to ejaculate you are supposed to stop all the stimulaton and hold his penis hard. Now this should be repeated. Perineal exercises also help. These are the muscle exercises that occur when he can contract the perineal muscles like when he is trying to stop the urine or feces. he has to do this contrations repeatedly daily to tone up the perineal muscles. Hope I have solved your query.If you have any other query please dont hesistate to ask.