I need some information regarding maintaing an erection. I m 22. Ever since I started masturbating when I was a young teenager, I have always had a kink for athletic uniform/clothing (I m gay). I ve been a military dependent pretty much my whole life, and I ve been overseas. Now that I m back in America and can actually start dating, every time I ve tried to be with a guy in the sexual way, I can t get an erection. I m enjoying myself to the point where I should be growing down there, but I m not. I don t know if this is a physical problem or emotional insecurity, or if I just can t get off without my kink. Please tell me what to do.