my husband just had open heart surgery and it seems the widow veins were the problem, he had a bypass and they said 3 out of 4 weren t holding. I have to get info elsewhere as he won t let me in the room he said if anything happens to him he doesn t want me to remember him this way. I have to go through the person he assigned but being she is my best friend I think she is holding back trying not to hurt me. It has been about 3 days and he still has blood coming out in his urine and water from around his heart as well as blood shot eyes now. I know worst case is he will die. He is still in ICU three days now she says best case he might live 2 more years. But he will not be able to do much of anything. I am afraid he will give up being how independent he was before. Not seeing his chart, how accurate do you think this is and what else might I need to know.