hello i just got married and me and my husband are virgins when he tries , it hurts a lot , as if the little space between the viginal opening and the anal is going to torn ( excuse my language , i don't know the scientific names) is it normal? what can we do to break the hymen?
Hello Do you get very tense at the time of sex? Actually it is normal to feel pain during sex initially. Don't worry about hymen,it will break by itself on penetration. I suggest you to use KY gelly and ask your husband to insert a finger first , then two for 10-15 times. Then try for slow insertion.If still you are not successful, you may be having contraction of perineal muscles on attempt of penetration. It is called vaginismus. It then requires expert treatment from a qualified sexologist. DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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Hello Do you get very tense at the time of sex? Actually it is normal to feel pain during sex initially. Don t worry about hymen,it will break by itself on penetration. I suggest you to use KY gelly and ask your husband to insert a finger first , then two for 10-15 times. Then try for slow insertion.If still you are not successful, you may be having contraction of perineal muscles on attempt of penetration. It is called vaginismus. It then requires expert treatment from a qualified sexologist. DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA