Thanks for choosing health care magic for posting your query.
In your questions, although it is very elaborate,you have failed to mention whether you have an ejaculation and then you loose and erection or is it that you loose an erection early before you ejaculate. In the first case it will be a premature ejaculation
and in the next case it will be erectile dysfunction
. The treatments for both of the illnesses are somewhat different.
There could also be an underlying depression
which could be leading to your sexual problem and which may not be very evident. You should seek a psychiatrist
who can discuss with you in detail and clarify a few more details. Both the conditions are treatable and hence you should not worry!
Just seek some help.
Hope I am able to answer your concerns.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
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Wish you good health,
Dr. Srikanth Reddy M.D.