Thanks for your query.Based on the facts that you have posted it appears that you have problem of getting Premature Ejaculation
Smoking and consuming alcohol are known causes of the Premature Ejaculation.
In absence of any major illness the cause of premature ejaculation is mind related and due to performance anxiety
Following measure will help you to boost up your confidence and getting good erection.and delay ejaculation.
1) Practice regular exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation
for 1/2 an hour in the morning.
2) Take high protein diet rich in vegetables and fruits and Vitamin A
3)Take anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday..
4) Avoid alcohol and smoking.
You can take medication like Sildenafil
and Dapoxine after consulting your family Physician,