Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your description. I suggest you not to worry. You are nearing menopause, of course. But when? No one is sure. There are very few clear cut advance symptoms and they are very difficult to tag. The stress and anxiety related to menopause is always found after menopause, and in majority of the cases it is due to psychological. Stress, apprehension and anxiety regarding menopause might be taking its toll in your case. Therefore, please, leave the thinking about menopause and enjoy the life. You might need psychological counseling., I am more than happy to provide telephone psychological counseling through healthcaremagic. Contact me through customer care, www.healthcaremagic.com. Hope this answer clears your doubt. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.