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Split from boyfriend. Always accused him. Attempted suicide, started drinking. Am I to be blamed?

i have just split from my bf of 2 years. for the last 6 months we have been on and off. He drinks far too much and has been having an on off affair for last 6 months. He tells me he still loves me. He says he only turned to drink and other woman because i was so insecure and accusing of him all the time, and i got him so low to the point of attempting suicide . When i met him he was married and he went through a bitter divorce. am i to blame?
Asked On : Sat, 10 Nov 2012
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Psychologist 's  Response
Dec 2015
Welcome to HCM
We understand you concerns

I went through your description. You are not to be blamed, for sure. You try to put him into the right path and that happens ususally only when you love him. Love is universal truth. You loved and he did not understand it.

He has other girlfriends, divorcee and is drinking and blaming you for so many reasons. From these things you can well understand him. He is unfaithful to you and therefore if you vive him leeway, he could very well heat you. Beware.

He is toying ith your sentiments. Using you. Understanding him now for you and leaving him might be a bit bitter to you because you love him so much. But as time passes you will be able to ignore his thoughts. Don't worry.

Channel your energy into your essential duties and prioritize them.

I hope I could clarify your doubts. Available for further queries.
Good luck.
Answered: Sun, 1 Sep 2013
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