Hi there ~
I understand your concern. Studies have shown that there is no standard size of penis. You have to be comfortable with what you have, after a certain age of having had puberty
. I do not think that your problem lies with the size of your penis that you cannot attract women. I also believe that the epilepsy
or the surgery has anything to do with your sexual life if you have been adequately treated for those conditions. I also hope that you are doing well in other aspects of life. I recommend that you visit with a psychiatrist
to have your issues resolved and a sexologist
regarding education about normal sexual health. I hope this helps.
Take care and have a lovely day!