Hi, Welcome and thanks for posting your query to HCM. According to your query you have premature ejaculation (PME) and small penis problem. Alright, you have not mentioned the exact size of your penis, reason being asking the size is that in all the cases we consider 2 inch to be the size adequate for sexual satisfaction in female. Now you might be asking a question of how 2 inch is sufficient. The reason is simple – in female external genitalia it is the external parts only which are most sensitive say for clitoris, labias and at the most just finger tip inside again known as G-spot all of which are within the reach of 2 inch penis. So if you are fascinated by some porn movies male stars then kindly don’t compare- as you yourself know the fact now. For the problem of early ejaculation/PME is a common entity in recently married couples where due to more of excitation we find premature ejaculation. It is same like a car when runs fast reach to the destination early. For this problem kindly get some confidence, talk to your wife regarding the issue of over excitation rather making it an issue of weakness. There are many a free of cost guidance sites for prevention of PME which tells systemic approach and pelvic exercises to prevent the same. Regarding your erection problem is a two way negative effect – one of small penis (now should not be there) and other PME causing a kind of disgust , stress and anxiety leading to inadequate erection. Kindly calm down yourself and start fresh from today. Still after few days to week you find the problem then can meet a sexologist to solve these simple things. All the best, Dr Sanjay K Kanodia MD ( Dermatology and STD/ Venereology)