Hi and thanks for the question, It is possible that this should be a hemorroid. This is simply distension of some blood vessels around the anal region due to poor venous drainage. Other possibilities still exist, an abscess, a cyst as you right said must also be excluded. But considering the fact that the symptoms worsened with your trial to intervene, it is more likely this should be a hemorroid. Management shall start with a proper diagnosis by a physician. Treatment involves both lifestyle changes, drugs and at times an incision depending on the stage. While waiting to see your physician, Advil is appropriate. You should avoid hard foods, eat lots of vegetable and fibre foods, drink much water and avoid foods with much pepper or spices. Consulting your family physician is of utmost importance to know exactly the state of your anal region. Thanks for your query on health care magic and best regards, Luchuo, MD.