Welcome to Healthcare Magic, Possible he is ashamed of his condition and don’t want somebody ( even Doctor ) know about it. Let him understand that sexual life are very important part of life and family relationship, normal healthy sexual life will maintain family stamina and he must be happy that you understanding him and willing to help and support in comparison with another women who leaved their husband and broke their family due to sexual unsatisfaction from their husbands. He must understand that premature ejaculation are transitory condition and can be cured with Doctor help and your support. Let him understand that you also suffering from his attitude and you are unhappy. Try to transform him , buy for him movies ( with sexual character) ask about his desires, wishes, etc.. All this measures and conversation will help plus practical advises from your Doctor. Best Regards, Dr.Mihail