As from the history you have mentioned eye lids are pink, puffy, swollen without involvement of the conjunctiva
. From your history I think probably you are having blepharitis
or blepharoconjunctivitis. The treatment of the condition is by cleaning of the lid margins and antibiotic eye ointment and lid scrubs depending on the severity of the condition.
Since the condition is known to run a chronic course, I advice to take proper treatment after consulting your eye doctor.