I have never had intercorse and don't plan to for a while, but my boyfriend and I were messing around and he came nowhere near me but he got up and got paper towels to clean himself up and then he wiped his fingers and we walked back to where we were and he insterted a finger in me just for a moment and then I told him to stop and wash his hands. That was about a month ago right after my period had ended and now I am due for my period and it is 4 days late. I'm getting some symptoms that I get when I am going to get my period but it's not coming. I don't have tender breasts fatigue nausea vomiting or darkening areolas. I am only concerned because of my late period. I always feel some slight nausea and fatigue because of my lupus but otherwise it hasn't grown or changed at all. I have been really moody and gassy and bloated but that usually happens when I'm going to get my period.