I am so so sorry about your problem, I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you. severe cases of pelvic pain like what you have need to be managed by a pelvi pain specialist, and the first thing I would recommend is to find someone in your area that specializes in treating chronic pelvic pain
the specialist will first have to figure what might be causing the pain, and this could be things like endometriosis
, or adenomyosis
, or other possibilities, then he /she can determine what treatment might work best. because this type of problem is so complicated, it is not something that can really be understood without a full and complete work up, which needs to be done by the right professional.
please let me know if you need any more help.