Hi thanks for writing to us.
You are having swollen lower lip with abscess
formation in it.
This infection has also involved the adjoining lypmph node which also has become enlarged and inflammed..
You have tried various home remedies
with some relief.
You want to squeeze the puss,yes you can,but better would be to consult a physician who besides draining the puss will also prescribe you systemic antibiotic and analgesic
anti inflammatory drugs.That is all you need and your infection will get subside in 3 to 4 days
Hope I answered your question.