Hi, I have been married over 6 months, but am still virgin. I tried having intercourse but it is very painful. Hardly a finger can penetrate. I consulted a gyno and she advised to use xylocaine. I tried that for fingering but I do feel some burning sensation while fingering and it keeps increasing if I continue trying. Also, after half an hour applying xylocaine, my skin gets very dried. There is no lubrication at all if we try foreplay. Please help.