Hi there ~
It is understandable that you have pain in the penis while retracting the foreskin. This condition is called Phimosis
. The good news is that your condition is surgically treatable. About the gout and kidney
stones as well as uncontrolled or frequent urination
, you seem to have a urinary tract infection
which is common in phimosis and is easily treated with antibiotics. Get a urine routine examination done. Reducing you weight would be highly beneficial to all your conditions and you should consider dietary modification, exercise and if it comes to it - gastric bypass surgery
. I hope you take the right steps to better health.
Take care and have a lovely day!