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Pain During Penetrative Sex For The First Time, No Bleeding Occurred. Am I Still A Virgin?

hi doctor, im 30 years and recently married. when i had my 1st time sex and it was so painful. very hard for him also.....then, the 3rd days only we really can enjoyed the sex. but, now my problem is, when we had sex i ve no bleeding (most of them said that if virgin when we had sex definetely will bleed). now not only my husband, even my self also so confuse on this.....can u please advise us on this....thanks in advance doctor....
Mon, 28 Jan 2013
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Hello Saroja,

Thanks for posting on HCM

The big answer is NO, you are no longer a virgin. Your hymen is not still in tact as the act of penetrating the first time ruptured it and hence rendered you not a virgin. The pain during the first act came as a result of small vaginal orifice and presence of hymen. After penetration, since the vagina is a elastic, it expanded (with pain) and the hymen broke. YOU MUST NOT BLEED THE FIRST TIME OF HAVING SEX. Note also that, your hymen can be broken even with your fingers or any sex instruments such as vibrators and this will also render you a virgin. It is true that most women experience pain and vaginal bleeding immediately after, but some women do not experience that. Some women who experienced childhood abuse and probably forgot as time went on, will not experience bleeding. But that should not call for any worries, just continue with your sexual life.

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Pain During Penetrative Sex For The First Time, No Bleeding Occurred. Am I Still A Virgin?

Hello Saroja, Thanks for posting on HCM The big answer is NO, you are no longer a virgin. Your hymen is not still in tact as the act of penetrating the first time ruptured it and hence rendered you not a virgin. The pain during the first act came as a result of small vaginal orifice and presence of hymen. After penetration, since the vagina is a elastic, it expanded (with pain) and the hymen broke. YOU MUST NOT BLEED THE FIRST TIME OF HAVING SEX. Note also that, your hymen can be broken even with your fingers or any sex instruments such as vibrators and this will also render you a virgin. It is true that most women experience pain and vaginal bleeding immediately after, but some women do not experience that. Some women who experienced childhood abuse and probably forgot as time went on, will not experience bleeding. But that should not call for any worries, just continue with your sexual life. Hope this was helpful