Your labia minora
seems to be swollen due to blunt injury
by pinching. It might have become bluish also. To get relief from this agony, please apply ice packs to labia minora. If the pain is intolerable, you may take some analgesic
anti-inflammatory medicine. If there is any open wound, please apply some local antibiotics cream like Soframycine. The lesion should subside within 5-7 days. You may report to Gynaecologist. Till you are relieved of pain and oedema, please observe sexual abstinence.
In future, if you are dry, please do not have forceful insertion. You may opt for one or both of the following:
1.Request your husband to wait till you are wet. Please ask him to seduce you more - the way you want it. Let him insert only when you are aroused and wet. Spend more time in body-play.
2. Use lubricants. Oil-based lubricants are harmful to woman's genital organs. Hence use only water-based lubricants. Vaginal jellies available with chemists are very good for the purpose.
I hope this helps you.
Dr. Nishikant Shrotri