Hi,
Welcome and thanks for posting your query to HCM.
After reading the whole series of problems multiple times I can make it out that you are quite stressed with your multiple problems. But to tell you a better of information is that all of these are just simple problems and nothing like a sickness. Taking your problems one by one:
1. The size of hole varies from person to person and we all have slight protuberance at this junction which we feel like abnormality or boil or something, so is a normal thing. Don't try to see such deep inside as may cause
injury or infection.
2. Everybody feel hot on peeing as urine is bit warm
3. Abdominal voices are nothing but simple gas sounds in your intestines. Should be present for normal bowel movements.
4. Having intercourse during period is nothing a big affair and do not make anything serious, even some people do prefer it as of easy penetration and better sexual satisfaction of both partners.
5. Using
dettol directly is like using an acid, so you can burn this soft area and the same happened to you. Do not try to do anything like that in future .
6. Drops of sperm are the normal secretion of the glands just like saliva in mouth.
So probably you got answers to each of your questions. You are most welcome to our forum for any future concerns.
Do live a healthy, productive and stress-free life.
All the best.
Dr Sanjay K Kanodia
MD ( Dermatology & STDs)