You seem to rather anxious! Relax; Be positive; Have hope
35 and 31 years - not old at all! Nowadays, many people get married at this age!
is a contributing factor / not contraindicating - I have seen several morbidly obese
people (more than 100 Kg) in the Middle East, conceiving and delivering on many occasions. Yet weight reduction is a must and will help - chances of blood pressure (Pregnancy Induced Hypertension
), blood sugar (Gestational Diabetes
) are all greatly reduced with reduction in weight. Start reducing now - the last two digits of your height in centimetres is your approximate weight in kilograms! (There are tables and BMI calculations). Go on trying for pregnancy at the same time. Hopefully all will be well
God bless you