hi i had gone through your query and understand your concerns. i would come up with the possibility of BPH
;BENIGN PROSTATIC HYPERTROPHY
leads to lower tract urinary infection the cause for your sufferings ( bladder outlet obstruction
-URODYNAMIC FLOW may confirm the diagnosis.
i advise you taking Homeopathic
medicines gives safe and permanent cure for your complaints of BPH and BLADDER OUTLET OBSTRUCTION without any surgery
consult your local homeopathic physician for correct diagnosis of the case and remedy to fit your complaints
I hope this is helpful for you, thank you