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The lump behind the (post auricular lymph
node) is usually very benign lymph node.
Usuall cause for this node is infection in the scalp
hairs like dandruff
or small boil in the scalp etc. and accordingly cause should be treated to treat the lump.
Cause of headache could be some different which should be looked on.
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