That is not true having sex with a condom on can be just as pelasurable as not having one on. the whole process of taking a condom out and using it as an oblect in foreplya nd letting the pyutting on of a condom be a pleasureable erotic act can be erotic an d arouse the bothof you and the requiremnet of having to wait and od that before gettin down to business can even itself help increase excitement of the event. Sex is 98% in your heads and what is or is not erotic is decided there and it is doen so conciously not sub consiously. Love your husband and really treat him nice. Explain your self ot him. Say Hey I am willing to find ways to make the use of a condom fun and interesting. Aks him to do this for you. To try it and to do it a hwile so he can see if it can be erotic to him. If he is willling to let is beomc so it will it is his heart and mind that make it seem not fun to him. Let him read this. Your wife's body is your body. Her heart and mind are yours. If your arm hurts you, then you help solve the hurt. Your arm is important to you. Now your wife his hurting. Let her be important ot you. Be compassionate towards her and do sex the way she wants toi and enjoy it and decide you are going to be happy doing it that way and in a while you will only want to do it that way and you will grow as a human being and become more noble of a man. This will improve your livces greatly. Now go do it with her and use a condom. then do it again with another condom. Real MEn ahve been using conodms for thousands of years. So it must be possible that it is peasurable and satisfying more than you realize. So learn something new and be more of a man and let her have this blessing from you.

Birth control pills don't stop your periods... that would be dangerous and unhealthy. They REGULATE your periods. There are three weeks when you take the birth control and then one week when you take a different pill that is basically just to keep track of the days and does not do anything. That week is when you will have a period. The only time it is not safe to have sex is during that week because there is no birth control.