my child is a teenager. they have always been book smart but not so street smart, has a bad temper, is sometimes phyically violent but can also be so loving. we are surprised peers haven't beaten up already. my child is almost legal age and getting old for this behavior. we are afraid how they will handle adulthood. also likes to iratate sp ? younger sibing that is in lot of ways more mature. what to do we really love our child very much but our child needs help we don't know how to give.