Hi, thanks for using health care magic
With a history of aggression, suicidal attempt and poor compliance with medication, it would be best if your mother was admitted to a hospital for at least a short period of time till her illness is under control.
At the hospital she would be given her medication under direct observation and she would receive counselling
When her mental state has improved , she may consider taking the medication and receiving any other care of her own accord.
It is not doing her or your family any good for her to continue like this.
I hope this helps, feel free to ask any other questions