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Lack Of Desire For Intercourse, No Erection. Advise?
My new husband is 60 yrs
W met 3 years ago and have only had sex about 8 times and none...zero in past 17 months. I'm 58 and always had sex 5 times a week during a 34 yr marriage. This is killing our relationship.
He has no...NO desire for any type of sex. His penis doesnt get errect. Maybe once a month but even then he won't do anything. His penis goes up into his foreskin even when urinating. He gets very angry if I approach the subject and turns me down if I initiate. Ssys hes tired and that I dont understsnd. He refuses cialis and got angry when I produced one. Ive threaten him with leaving. But I put all my finances into the marriage that I'd be stupid....maybe I should just accept my life as it is. But it depresses me. I love sex and desire it every day and feel life has passed me by.
Whats his problem here
W met 3 years ago and have only had sex about 8 times and none...zero in past 17 months. I'm 58 and always had sex 5 times a week during a 34 yr marriage. This is killing our relationship.
He has no...NO desire for any type of sex. His penis doesnt get errect. Maybe once a month but even then he won't do anything. His penis goes up into his foreskin even when urinating. He gets very angry if I approach the subject and turns me down if I initiate. Ssys hes tired and that I dont understsnd. He refuses cialis and got angry when I produced one. Ive threaten him with leaving. But I put all my finances into the marriage that I'd be stupid....maybe I should just accept my life as it is. But it depresses me. I love sex and desire it every day and feel life has passed me by.
Whats his problem here
Mon, 27 May 2013
Hello
Thanks for your query.Based on the facts that you have posted it appears that your husband who is 60 years old has problem of erectile dysfunction and has no desire for sex.
Please consult qualified Urologist for detail evaluation and investigations to find out the cause of his erectile dysfunction.and further treatment.
You have to take your husband in to confidence and convince him to get all the necessary investigations done .
You can not do any thing withot his cooperation .
Dr.Patil.
Thanks for your query.Based on the facts that you have posted it appears that your husband who is 60 years old has problem of erectile dysfunction and has no desire for sex.
Please consult qualified Urologist for detail evaluation and investigations to find out the cause of his erectile dysfunction.and further treatment.
You have to take your husband in to confidence and convince him to get all the necessary investigations done .
You can not do any thing withot his cooperation .
Dr.Patil.
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