Genital area is very much sensitive than normal skin specially vagina and labia.
So dont give any chemical agent like hair removal
cream inside the vagina.
Itching and swelling are due to effect of hypersensitive reaction of veet.
Proper wash with cold
Keep the area dry gently.
It will heal automatically. You can apply water based jelly to smoothing the area.
All the best.
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