hi,i m a virgin girl and i tried having sex once and i think it was fully penetrated,i bleed a lilltle bit for a week and the second time i tried having sex it was after a week,it was very painful even to insert the tip of penis and i stopped trying from then,i want to have sex but the pain won t let me,is there anything i can do to help ease the pain?something like loacl anesthesia to help through the second time and may be from the 3rd time ,it won t hurt