Thank you for your query on Healthcare Magic.
Your child is having an ear irritation
due to wax or effusion.
Keep her ears dry and don't allow the water to enter into her ears while giving bath.
Her ears has to be examined to look for any infection, effusion.
Give her cooked and mashed vegetables, mashed fruits as they contain dietary fiber
which will help in passing soft stools.
Consult the doctor for ears examination.
Hope I have answered your query.